I dont want to meet people or be around people, do you know why?

I have kinda always been like that, I never had an interest in meeting new people, unless it was a guy who was attractive and I was looking for a boyfriend. Now I have a b/f for a few years now, I get so annoyed when his friends come over. I don't like having company at all. I have a couple best friends that I dont even want them to come over, and I dont really go out of my way to call them or anything, they always call me etc. I never felt a need to meet people and I get stressed out when I do meet new ppl at work and stuff and they want my # and to hang out after work, cuz I feel like I have no time for them, so I ignore their calls. Anyone else do stuff like this? What do you think is wrong with me cuz I dont think most people are like this.

I dont want to meet people or be around people, do you know why?
I'm similar. My motto is, "Will people just leave me alone?!" I find them draining. I don't think there's anything wrong with me. You have your limits, nothing wrong with it. More people are like this than you know - but some of them force themselves to conform to be more social.
Reply:shy, introverted, lazy, apathetic, insecure





it is easier to opt out of normal society. when you are basically lazy, it is difficult to extend yourself, take a chance.





you are in a comfortable rut and see no need to change.
Reply:I think you might be a bit insecure....


I think it's okay for you to meet guys cause when u have a boyfriend you know they like you and that nothing should rly feel awkward around you two but when you're around other people they ask you for ur number and want to meet up etc etc and when you do meet up you're scared its going to get awkard and ull have nothing to say and you're just too lazy to deal with it lol


I'm like that too and i finally understand why....maybe you're the same? anyways let me know...