Guys, I want to meet people, but I am always tempted to "hook up" because I'm horny. What do I do? I'm gay.

I'm a gay guy, young, 31 years old, not too old yet! - and have no bf, but I get pissed when I meet guys to hook up with and they have bf's (that they are cheating on-it's anonymous, so who cares, but it bothers me). I am setting myself up to get angry, I know, because if I want to meet quality people, I should invest myself in that, but I get horny and want to hook up because I have to get my needs met, right?! It's hard being single and not hooking up, as many gays do, because in the meantime, before I get to that 3rd or 4th date, I still have manly urges!

Guys, I want to meet people, but I am always tempted to "hook up" because I'm horny. What do I do? I'm gay.
Find yourself a good guy! Life is not about f*cking around, yes you're not old at all but you're wasting your time and missing the chances to meet the right person.





Control your desires, my friend.
Reply:I've got gay male friends and they don't seem to have much of a problem find single gays for just sex, when they are in-between boyfriends.





Hang in there, and don't compromise your values. If you are a party to cheating, you are okaying yourself to be cheated on.





P.S. We heteros can have that problem too...you're not alone (even though that doesn't help with the frustration).
Reply:oh god i'm 16 and my boyfriends 15 I hope I don't end up like you one day...





go to gay bars/clubs





could be an attraction thing, maybe you should exercise at the gym more ofthen or something...?
Reply:its hard for people who are gay. i wont tell you my feelings about gays cause you did not ask that but good luck
Reply:Have you considered giving hand jobs for crack?