What to do when your husband doesnt like to meet people at all?

he only like to meet his family and now not taking me there either if i ask him he would say why i will go there when i have to go he doesnt like to take me visit any friends or go to meet friends he always tells me you are free to go to meet your friends but then his mood is very bad and he is all sarcastic. he beleaves only good people are his family and all other people are waste of time we have small child and we dont meet anybody at all i feel lonly. some time he comes realy late and doesnt like to explan i think he is meeting his family and friends but whenever he talks he says because of me he doesnt meet his family and friends i dont know how to handle this he never open up about his feelings no mater what ido.he doesnt respect me front of his family he tells them every single thing personal..they know every thing about us but i dont know a single thing about them,,,,

What to do when your husband doesnt like to meet people at all?
It is hard when your marriage is like that especially when kids are involved...





I would say that you should go out on your own to meet new people. My husband is very shy and doesn't like to meet new people, either. I am outgoing. I talk to a lot of people and enjoy having friends outside of my family. So, I go out and have friends and he doesn't. Do not let him sulking or being sarcastic keep you from living your life the way you think is best for you and your child. If he says you can go... go. If he gets mad about it later, that's his fault not yours.





If it continues to get worse, LEAVE HIM! If your child is a boy, he could turn out like him. If it's a girl, she could marry someone like him.





I lived the same way you do now for years. Luckily, my husband trusts me enough to not get upset when I go out with my friends these days.





Another possibility is that your husband is cheating on you. A lot of times this happens. In this case it is a control issue. He doesn't want you to associate with other people because then you will not find out. If he is not wanting to discuss what he did with his family, it seems he might not be going to see his family.





Do what you feel is best. For you and your child.
Reply:If I didn't have a job I would get one. Save my money and try to explain things to him one more time. If he kept this up, he would come home to find me and my child gone and really have something to blab to his family about.
Reply:He sounds like he is very selfish and incosiderate of your feelings and you need to put a stop to that. How come you let him get away with that are you that weak of a person,


sh-- girl take control of your man and your household and put your man in check now! What is he the big scary monster if you are afraid of him, thenyou should'nt be married to him. As far as him thinking the only people that are good are is family it's because he can't trust anyone and when you can't trust anyone you can't trust yourself. His loyality is to his family because he has no loyality to anyone else including himself. He probably has no friends because he doesn't trust anyone, because he can't trust himself. So my advise to you is STEP UP TO TH PLATE AND TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR HOME AND DON'T BACK DOWN ANYMORE KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH BE A STRONG WOMAN11111111111
Reply:He's more comfortable with his own family because they know all about him, the good and the bad!!!


Meeting new people threatens his inadequate self esteem. My husband is/was the same way and I finally realized what it was. He was leading a double life. Dr Jeckel-Mr Hyde.





Keep your eyes opened.
Reply:Get your head out of the clouds. He is a selfish pig and doe's not love you. Get out and meet some one who deserves you. You don't need him...
Reply:You married the wrong person hes possessive and controlling things will only get worse from here GET OUT before its too late
Reply:Try inviting your friends or family around without him knowing...When they are there and he is trapped in with you and him then give him some of his own medicine...(tell your friends etc..before hand what you are doing)Later when you are both alone tell him that if he did not like your attitude then he should not do the same to you...Failing all that he does sound horrible so why don't you just ignore him and do your own thing...Good luck
Reply:ease him into public life.he might have other issues. do you flirt with his friends?maybe he's insecure of his presentation?maybe he likes spending more time in secured,known circles...?





talk talk talk!





communicate with him. talk it over. even if it leads to minor arguments.
Reply:kick his azz
Reply:Sorry i am not married!but i f i was give him a kick..
Reply:jusgt left the husband and find other one and enjoy the life as u want