How do you meet people in Seattle?

I just moved to the Seattle area 4 weeks ago. And so far it has been impossible to meet anyone. I go to school and I just dont really click with anyone. I live with my sister but we need to meet people. why is it so hard to meet people?

How do you meet people in Seattle?
Get involved in things that interest you - whether it be local sports teams, church, clubs, etc. Or you may just want to go out and see what the single scene is like - people are usually more open in a social setting. You could also try hanging out at the coffee shops, going to the farmers market, attending local events. I'm moving there soon, so I hope its not too bad. I've moved around a lot, and its usually hard for the first couple of months to get adjusted, but once you start to meet people you branch out more. Best of luck - maybe I'll see you up there!
Reply:i have the same problem me and my husband just moved here and it seems like everyones to stuck up to talk, so i just live my life without them.
Reply:It's not hard to meet people in any place. Just show an interest in them. Any time you find yourself next to someone you'd like to meet, think of something nice to say to them, or an interesting question to ask them. "That's a beautiful blouse you're wearing. Is it your favorite?" "I love your hair cut. Did you have it done locally?" "I'm new in town. Can you recommend a nice park close by?" You can tell by their answer if they would like to continue the conversation. If they want to continue the conversation, they'll usually answer your question, then either volunteer additional information, or ask you another question. If they don't want to enter into a conversation, they will usually answer your question as quickly as possible and turn away from you or walk away. If they indicate they want to continue the conversation, it's up to you from there. As I've told my daughter many times, if you want a friend, you've got to be a friend. Lots of luck.
Reply:I'm from Olympia(About an hour south from Seattle), and people seem to be nicer down here, why don't ya visit sometime?
Reply:Go out. downtown parties..clubs.. or starbucks or whatever ur into..or sign up for something get involved within the community join an organization u feel strongly about..its seattle people and things to do is all over the place.
Reply:I moved from Texas to Seattle a couple of years ago and really struggled with meeting people up there. I found that the Texas hospitality really had me spoiled and I found the people up there distant and cold. After joining a church (Mill Creek Foursquare just north of Lynnwood) and getting more involved with my pets (I have a dog), I found myself meeting people with similar interests, and found a few good friends. It also helped me that I was part of a couple, so there were more chances for me to meet people and network...


Go to meetup.com and try to find a group that you are interested in and try to get to know the members there. Seattle has a huge variety to pick from, so it shouldn't be hard to find something you like. It will be really hard to meet someone randomly and strike up a friendship, so I would recommend getting involved with something, whether it be work, school, or hobby related. I know that area in the summer is very active in outdoor recreation and environmentally minded activities, so that season is approaching!


I feel your pain and after leaving, I realized how hard it was to get to know people up there! They are great, loyal friends once you get in with them, but it just takes a while to really feel "in" with a group there! Good luck finding some new friends in such a beautiful city!