I am in my mid 20's and am outgoing..but i still have trouble meeting new people..especially single guys! whats best..online, at mall, clubs or bars, church, gym, school or work..how did you meet your sweetie?
I have attended the gym for a year havent met anyone..also i have attended the same college for 3 years and havent met anyone and dont know anyone there either...im a fun, sexy, outgoing, smart and hard working girl! whats the problem? HELP!
What is the best way to meet new people?
Perhaps your body language is a turn off. Do you use open and welcoming gestures or do you use gestures that are off-putting?
Sometimes it's the non-verbal communication that can make or break a potential relationship.
Remember looks aren't everything. If you're incredibly hot that might seem threatening to a guy. You might be sexy, but to some guys you might seem out of their league and they tend to not approach women like that.
* To make up for my "mean" answer I gave you earlier. Hope this makes me a good person to you again.*
Reply:I've asked this question for some time now and still don't know the answer! I too am mid-twenties and have tried the usual bars, clubs, gym, etc etc.. Its not that I don't meet people so much....its that I meet the wrong kinda people.
I think maybe its best to meet new people through existing friends as it seems logical that you'd already have some common ground.
Good luck - and if you find the answer let me know!
Reply:you didn't give me your number. (sorry jk)
no try going to and doing things that you don't normally
do
if you keep the same patterns things don't change.
avoid bars and online
try a church picnic or outing, church people tend to be more fun away from Church.
Reply:Go to a coffee shop, the library, or the gym.
Reply:maybe you dont have the charisma that much.
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Try a church group that offers a youth group and singles outing Church people are far more fun AWAY from Church. But they tend to have good values and integrity. You just need to expand your social circle and people you like will fall into place.
ReplyDeleteForget coffees shops and the gym...you have no idea who these people are and they are not necessarily going to be truthful.
Again stick to the church (0r synagogue) as these folks will be more genuine with you.
Reply:Go to a coffee shop, the library, or the gym.
Reply:maybe you dont have the charisma that much.