Friday, April 16, 2010

How to meet new people when everyone you know doesn't seem like they want to talk to you?

Lately I feel so lonely. None of my friends seem like they don't want to talk to me, my own family seems like they don't want to talk to me they only person I can talk to is my boyfriend but I honestly don't know how long he can talk to me because I'm always depressed and negative whenever I talk to him. What can I do to meet new people?

How to meet new people when everyone you know doesn't seem like they want to talk to you?
Deal with the negativity first. Positive and confident people attract other people and negativity repels them. Spend time improving your self esteem and confidence, and look at the funny side of life and humourise negative events. As soon as you become more positive, people will want to be around you.
Reply:It's really nice to be surrounded by lots of friends that you love you and want to be around you. But the reality is while our friends love us---they are busy with their lives. You should not take it personally.





Your boyfriend sounds like a great guy. If he cares for you, he won't mind listening to you express your concerns, and worries.





You can meet people in a variety of places; at sporting events, (user friendly)chat rooms, Billiard Rooms (Dave %26amp; Busters, Gillians, etc.) and you can also meet people and make connections at church.
Reply:Why dont you focuse more on getting the people you love back. Depression hurts, and so does being lonely, but you can make better relationships with your family and friends. In my opinion, You dont want to lose what you already have to get something new.


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