Breaking up.. how do I meet new people?

I have no final decision, but i am considering breaking up with my boyfriend due to lack of love in our relationship..





My problem is, i'm not in school (graduated hs and didn't go to college) I don't currently have a job, all of my friends have boyfriends, and I would have NO way of meeting someone new.





I don't want to be alone forever you know. It's just easier for people to break up who have things to occupy their time, and chances to meet new people, I don't even have enough friends to hang out with to keep me from being lonely.. I just don't think I can do this knowing that I WILL be alone.. and that my boyfriend would most likely have a new girl within a few weeks..





I'm just anti social, the town I live in is filled with nothing but drug addicts and pot heads, and I want a decent guy, and I already have one.. he just isn't in love with me anymore.. is it worth giving him up just to be alone? ... I really don't think i'd find someone more decent than my boyfriend now....

Breaking up.. how do I meet new people?
just keep in touch with me and we can cyber-link -- YEA!
Reply:If you're unhappy, then yes, it's worth it. How old are you? And you're already talking about being alone FOREVER! You've got the rest of your life, you have no clue what's going to happen to you within the next few years of your life and you have no idea who you'll end up meeting. You say all of your friends have boyfriends. Well I'm sure these boyfriends have friends who are single. You can't possible be the ONLY single person in that town you live in. Double with your friends and their boyfriends. If anything you'll meet new people and have gained a few new experiences.
Reply:Its kul girl, its never woth bieng in a bad relationship and getting hurt for no reason, your missing out on REAL love. just keep in touch with me cuz im kinda gouing through the same thing, except i broke up with him already but we still knda talk. It was soo hard at first cuz your used to the same person but soon you just kinda don't care, just keep thinking of all the bad things he did to you, and believe you could do better, even though for me that part was hard since he made me have low self esteem. BUt stay strong and don't let him know that you need him or that your weak.
Reply:I wouldn't worry yourself, Just keep yourself more active by applying for college and get a job you will meet someone new in no time.Decides you can't rely on a man to pay the bills, Doing this will also be a good way to secure your own future.
Reply:First take some time for you, b/c it seems to me you need time for you.


Apply for a job or get some kind of schooling.


First do you, %26amp;%26amp; then you can get someone else, someone better than the drug addicts and potheads you say live in your town.
Reply:I believe you have answered your own question. You are so afraid of being alone, you are willing to live without love in the relationship. Its not worth it, believe me. You grow hard and distant with each other and sooner or later one of the other will cheat. Cut your losses and get on with your life. Maybe its time to get a job or go to college? Life is more than hanging out with friends, that has to get boring after awhile.
Reply:me n my hubby met each other on myspace. my friend n her man did too. but make sure you r care ful....talk 2 them a while and bring ppl with y ou when you meet them.
Reply:um if things are not going right then you should cut it off but if you and your bf are doing ok for now then keep things going with him and let him cut things off
Reply:The longer you put it off, the harder it will be to break up.





Maybe use the empty space to think about what you would like to develop in your own life. See if there are any clubs or classes that involve interests of yours (music, art, etc). Look for a job, go places that have caught your interest, etc.





If you stick with your boyfriend just to avoid being alone, you'll end up unhappy and without a personality and interests that make you happy. If he is bad enough that you want to ditch him, you definitely don't want your whole personality being based on being "(his name)'s girlfriend."
Reply:YOU CAN START BY TALKING TO ME
Reply:it really helps to have someone else as a backup almost, but there's GOT to be someone that you've had an attraction to. who cares if they work with you man? the point is you never know until you try. I would definitely let him go, i let mine of 2 years go basically yesterday. its hard but i've also had someone trying to get with me for the past 3 months so there's got to be a secret admirer that you dont know about! just think about someone who've you thought about before but had to tell yourself "no i cant feel this way about him, i have a boyfriend!" and GO FOR IT.

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