Anyone know how to meet people in New York City?

I've lived in NYC for years and I think it is SO difficult here to make friends (especially, when you can't meet people in the workplace -- like me). Anyone know any creative activities in NYC that would help to meet people? Thanks!

Anyone know how to meet people in New York City?
go to culture activities, open concerts in the park, food events, art shows any charities that attract people, book stores go to places that interest you and you'll meet people with the same interest.
Reply:How can you live in one of the greatest cities in America and not have any friends? There are literally millions of people there. But I hear its not too friendly. Here's what you do: Find a great cafe or bar and become a regular. Pick up the paper and find out what's happening that interests you such as lectures, events, anything that strikes your fancy. Jog in Central Park. Take up a hobby through the local YMCA and learn to strike up a conversation. Step out of your shell and be yourself though. That's most important. Good luck!
Reply:haha. It's kind of ironic that in the most populated city in the country, it's hard to meet people. I live in KC (completely different-everyone in friendly), so I can't help too much. But try to go social events that are in your interest. Good luck
Reply:go to the speed dating.. talk to other men and women?
Reply:If you are a nice looking person! you will be better respected. The Park, the bridge, just anywhere where people hang out. Just be nice and smile. Dont go out too late at night! then you will just be raped!
Reply:i dont know what type of person you are soo its kinda hard to give advice....


you can always just go to some small little cafe or shop and just start talking to somebody.... dont be embarassed because its NYC there are millions and millions of people living there and chances are you wont see them again and if you do they wont tease you about it. you could go to some clubs or some kind of night life place with one or two of your friends that you already have and just meet people because people are ususally in a good mood when they are out at such a place, they are just looking for fun. do not be afraid of what a person will think of you if you start to talk to them... nobody really minds have a small conversation with somebody in the middle of their lunch break or inthe evening unless they are just cruel. just go for it.

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