Thursday, November 19, 2009

Londoners ...How to meet people in pubs?

People say that If you want meet people you should go to pubs, but, Should I go there alone? with friends? I'm Latin, and the maners to know people in my country it's different, so what do you suggested to me to meet people? It's safe talk with strangers there? How can I know that someone are interested on me ? Do I wait for a beer from someone? How is "the flirting game" in a pub?


and how don t look like an easy girl?


Complex question I know!!

Londoners ...How to meet people in pubs?
order a beer , get a table, and somehow let one of your boobs fall out. It will all work it's out from their.


When and where does one go to meet new people? I've tried different online sites, but don't know where to go.

I work 2 jobs (don't really meet people (guys in particular) through work, Saturdays are spent running errands, and Sundays I'm at church. When does one have the time and where does one go to meet people? Even though I'm working 2 jobs, I'm tight on money (recent college grad). I'm not into drinking and such, so the bar scene just doesn't work. I'm up for chatting online, txting, and talking on the phone, but I don't know where to really go to meet people. It would be nice to have more people in my life to hang out w/ and do things with, but right now I'm just having a hard time making it happen. How does one keep from being so lonely? I'm close w/ my roommate, but we still need more than just the two of us to have the "social life." Most of our friends around are married, so they don't really do anything with us anymore. And Ogden, UT isn't the most exciting city around. Now that I'm done w/ school, I can't meet anyone in classes anymore. So where do I go to find a decent guy?

When and where does one go to meet new people? I've tried different online sites, but don't know where to go.
Dont laugh... Myspace is a good way to meet people in your area. You can search for people in your zip code. Talk to them for a while and see what happens. (you can also look and see what kind of comments they get to advise you of what kind of person they are... lol)
Reply:yes i too work a busy schedule and would like my social life to liven up too so i will e- mail you k. the rest is up to you!
Reply:Church socials, other churches, sporting matches, gyms.
Reply:Sara even if you dont drink alcohol you can still hang out in a nightclub you can have orange juice the point its a place where singles hangout you are sure to meet someone there come girl life is too short just dress go there and enjoy your self take your gf with you and you both would be amazed how many guys would love to hang out with you...
Reply:I'm kind of like you... 22 guy, work full time and get back home at 9pm to eat and sleep... I only get time to rest on the we, but I wish I use that time to find friends and girls like me, and I don't know where...


It seems like there are lots and lots of ppl like us out there, but we don't know how to find/be found.


But one thing is sure, having a social life again won't come by itself, we have to move our ***! I'm currently listing all the interests in meetup.com to see if there is anything interesting, you should do the same! Once you have a few contacts you can grab your contact's contacts and move on!


(that's just what I've been saying to myself since last month, but I don't see any other solutions...)


So... good luck, never give up, there is no easy answer to that....


How hard is it to meet people backpacking?

I'm going for a month or so to Europe this summer by myself... how hard is it to meet people backpacking through europe, staying in hostels? I'm an average outgoing guy and usually doesn't have too much trouble meeting people - I would just like to be able to go to bars and clubs and such and don't really want to do that by myself. Any suggestions on where to meet people? Thanks





I'm traveling to London, Paris, Barcelona, and Rome.

How hard is it to meet people backpacking?
Hi...In those Cities.. It will be as easy as pie!





One of the reasons people stay in hostels is to meet people!!


You won't be the only one wanting to make friends. Don't worry :-)





Some quick advice... would be to say 'Hello' whenever you pass somebody in the Hostel you are staying at..and try to make conversation with whoever is sharing a room with you. Just say something obvious such as "Do you like Barcelona, London? etc" You will be surprised at how easy a conversation flows from that....And also try to talk to people who are not in groups..they will be more receptive...and it is no fun tagging along with a ready made group....


Private hostels are a better place to meet people than YHA' . Most private hostels have a kitchen or some kind of common room where you can hangout. There is a good place to gather people for a night out! You will hear about the best places to stay on the hostel grapevine once you get started...








If you go off the beeten track it is a little more difficult..but still very easy. Certainly I have been on a many a train and once people see I'm foriegn they just come over to talk to me...and I have been invited to many houses. It is like that in many small villages..


I would recommend you try to do that as well. Because I'm sure you are not going traveling just to party with back- packers but to learn about the local culture as well!








A few ice breakers for when you are on a long journey ..I would suggest are: cards, chess set, a phrase book unless you are at conversational in the languages of the countries you are travelling to, photos of your family or home town.. and a bottle opener! (the bottle opener is good for the hostel too)








I would suggest if you have time to travel a little further afield too. He are some cities I suggest, Amsterdam, Prague, and Belgrade... (Belgrade as an especially good night life.. and the locals a very friendly...it's much better if you go partying with them because they know the cool spots much better than any tourist)











BTW It is very safe traveling in Europe alone...I'm a female and I have done it before ..no problems:-)..








HAVE A NICE TRIP ;-)
Reply:Not hard. Just remember to bathe often, as most people who cross Europe while backpacking do not bathe as often as they should. You should not go to Europe alone. You will be a target of thieves. If you have money for bars and staying in Hotels, why don't you rent a car? What is the point of backpacking if you are enjoying creature comforts?
Reply:You sound like a nice guy and I'm sure you won't have any problems. Me and my friend backpacked for 3-months and we met soooo many nice people and ended up traveling with many of them. When you are backpacking you are in a sort of club -and everyone is interested in getting to know different people from all over the world. And, you will! Research the hostels in the cities that you will be travelling to before you go and pick out a couple that sound more social.





For hostel information check out http://www.hihostels.com/


http://www.hostels.com/en/index.html





For backpacking info check out http://www.backpackeurope.com/





Have a great trip! I know you will!
Reply:Get work in the hospitality industry or seasonal work in orchids and vineyards.

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I need to meet people?

i'm not new to CT but i need to meet new ppl becaue my life is dull. can you tell me some area to go to meet people or chatrooms or we can talk online.

I need to meet people?
wow...you guys are funny...she seems to want to meet people in CONNECTICUT, not ohio or some other random place...sheesh
Reply:u can talk 2 me anytime email:miad3nboy@yahoo.com
Reply:hey ill talk to you...i love in Ohio but yea ill talk...i have aim and my s/n is AverageJoes44 My icq number is


211-592-648 and my yahoo s/n is bcs_dunn44


Where can I meet people?!!!?

I want to meet more people like me (into electronica, chill out music) and kinda artsy... i don't know where to meet people like me...!!!! My school is very preppy so no one like me. What do I do????

Where can I meet people?!!!?
your on the right trak. whooa did i mispell that. I;m not good enough for you. or is that uuuu? I dont know how to spelll. Was that tooo many letters for spellll? somebody help me.


Should people you meet online be considered real friends or should you have to meet them in person?

I hate it when people are bragging about all these people they know online. I say they shut up and meet them for real.

Should people you meet online be considered real friends or should you have to meet them in person?
it doesnt matter
Reply:I agree. you can't call them your friends until you know eachother in person, like how you look on a picture online could be a complete fake.
Reply:No, I don't think that people you meet online are your real friends. They are definitely good to talk to sometimes, especially when you feel like you can't talk to the people who really know you. But there's a quote that says "a true friend is one who knows all about you and still likes you." Personally I don't think internet friends can really know you because they do not spend time with you. Yes, you can spill your guts to them and you can release your secrets, but who are you really talking to on the other end??? You have no idea! You really don't. They can show you anybody's picture and put in any birthdate or zip code. They can be a totally different individual because no one is actually physically present. So, yes, it's important to physically meet and spend adequate time with one another to be considered true friends. You also have to consider the risks that are involved as well. More and more these days, people do not think there is any harm in internet relationships. There are still and will always be those creeps, pathological liars, controlling personalities, psychopaths, anti-social personality disorders, married individuals who say they're single... the list goes on and on... just always be very careful and research into this... you can't take anyone's word anymore.


How can i meet more people ?

Im not used to making conversation with strangers or people that i meet up with during the day. How can i be friendlier to people and get them to talk to me. Im a nice person.. just not used to talking to people. People usually have to be really outgoing for me to talk to them.... How are the super friendly people able to talk to everyone they meet....

How can i meet more people ?
Dont worry im the same, you just gotta go up to someone and say hi, smile and start a conversation. Its really hard at first to be able to talk to strangers or ppl u've just met but once you get the hang of it. You'll get used to it and end up being a pro. practise makes perfect.
Reply:Go out to places where other people like yourself hang out.Find places where u and other people might share some common interests.For example,go to a hang out spot like a place where there is a band playing or go to a singles group if ur single.Don't be scared to ask coworkers or school buddies out for lunch or a cup of coffee.What ever ur situation is ur sure to get an offer back.

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Where do we meet people?

My husband and I are pretty new to the Littleton/Denver CO area and we desperately need to meet other people our age. We are a younger couple (mid twenties) with two beautiful children. We haven't found the time or apparently the right place to meet any other couples in our area. Any ideas?

Where do we meet people?
No people around work to hang out with? What about church?
Reply:My favourite suggestion is to volunteer for a cause that means something to you. There are alot of organizations that can host families who want to volunteer, so then you can meet other parents.





There is also something called Google Groups in which people set up meetings for people with similar interests. It's casual, the meetings are in public areas, and everyone there is generally interested in meeting new people.


http://www.meetup.com/cities/us/co/littl...
Reply:what about your neighbors? that's always a good start to meet somebody, plus there are times when you're going to meet them sooner or later!
Reply:strip clubs are cool
Reply:-the library


-the park with your kids


-church (if you go)





It's too bad that it is so difficult to meet and make new adult friends when you move to a new area (I went through it not that long ago).





Good luck, and don't give up hope...they are out there!


How Do I Meet New People??

Ok, i'm not gonna give out my personal information, but in order to give you a good example im gonna change the information. So say i live in like Florida, and i lived like 45 minutes away from miami, and it was accesible by train. I dont like the kids in my town, and get along better with city people. I visited a friend in miami, and saw how great of a city miami was. if i wanted to hang in the city all the time, i would need someone who lived there. So how do i meet kids that live in the city. my friend says she met most of her city friends online, but thats a hassle and takes too long. any help???

How Do I Meet New People??
lots of ways, go to parties, go to the mall, go to a place that is populer where you live, or do what i did go online and find a bf but be very very very careful abou that, there are some weirdo's out there, i was from Oregon and i met a guy that was the same age as me, he was from Pennsylvania, welp once i started to talk to him on chatrap.com i noticed that he was really a cool person to talk to, and we talked some more on the net and the phone and that summer my parents let him fly down to meet me, and guess what we've dated for over a year and we're now engaged and i live with him and his mother and were moving back to oregon this summer. so i garentee you if you open your heart up and tell guys what you like and want and give what you expect back then it should work out for you. i wish you luck.


I want to meet new people.?

I have good friends but im interested in meeting new people and making more friends. Any suggestions on how i could meet more people?

I want to meet new people.?
join interest groups, get out more, internet chat groups, go to event nights (eg trivia), ask family and current friends to introduce you to their friends...
Reply:Hi,


If your from the UK stay clear of GAYDAR...its filthy and full of seedy scumbags (although u might meet like 1 nice person). May I suggest outeverywhere.com. Its a great site and very social and they have regular events all over the country that many very nice gay people attend. Would be very benefitial too you.





Hope this helps and good luck!
Reply:The best way to meet new people is to go out to different places you can also chat but I would rather go out and meet people face-to-face.
Reply:Very easy, now u r on the way to meet new friends in yahoo!!! good for u!!!
Reply:email me =] imalunatic67@yahoo.com =]
Reply:is u gay%26gt;?
Reply:if your gay go to a gay bar or email me at gayholt16@yahoo.com if or straight i don't know
Reply:try talking to people and get more caught up to it.





try talking to me if you want





vicente_rj91@yahoo.com


How did people meet before dating sites became so popular?

It seems everybody is going that route these days. So, my question is, what did people do before the advent of dating sites? Where and how did they meet? I dunno, it just seems like everybody is lost when it comes to meeting someone unless they've got a dating site to refer to...

How did people meet before dating sites became so popular?
we met in public places. Grocery stores, laundry mats. Or ended up having the same group of friends. Now days its too sterile and cold to meet new people. They want financial portfolios, credit history, and a preplanned of your future events in case they might be interested.... I like the old fashioned ways. Just chance meetings that turn into something more.
Reply:I have never had a gf. But I believe before the advent of online dating, people met other people at clubs and bars and through mutual friends. Also, at school (college, high school).
Reply:well a man used to carry $ and purchase alchohol. After she consumed much. They got together
Reply:Bars, school, through friends.
Reply:its the turn of the century
Reply:They met thru friends, work, and doing things otha then sittin on there computers
Reply:1) pubs/nightclubs


2) Friends setting people up


3) through work/college etc.


4) seeing each other in the same places often e.g. parks, coffee shops etc.
Reply:Well I've never ever been to a dating site and don't plan on it. I guess people just meet by friends or coincidence. The normal way you know.
Reply:community fuctions,church picnic,dances,out just walkin
Reply:They went with whoever came along. The boy next door, the guy from down the pub. Now with internet dating you can actually shop for a partner. It just gives you more to choose from.
Reply:HAH! nobody I know uses that crap. Everybody finds people from school, or friends friends and such. Dating sites seem lame to me, and most the people I know have the same opinion. It's better to get to know the person and be friends before you get into all the dating crap.
Reply:the workplace


church


malls


grocery stores

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Where can i meet new people new friends?

im 23yrs old and I no longer talk to high school friends and I moved away from my college friends. the friends i have now either never want to go out or are now married. where and how can i meet new people and make new friends? any sites for networking to meet

Where can i meet new people new friends?
check your local area chat rooms


Meet three people?

so if you could spend three days with three different people (dead or alive) who would they be and give reasons plz. ^_^ also this means one person per day.





i'd pick





1) Lewis Carroll - literary genius, very complex, puzzling human.


2)Marilyn Manson - Totally awesome, he's an idol to me. i wish i could meet him


3)Kurt Cobain - awesome guy who made awesome music, then i could learn the truth behind his death.





so there are my three what are urs?

Meet three people?
1) Lucille Ball-- is a Comical genius and i love her, I would love to learn from her..





2) Billie Joe Armstrong -- Because he is Sexy as hell, and hes a Bisexual so it would be nice:)





3) Britney Spears -- (I know call me crazy) but I have Idolised her senice she came out, and I would love to have lunch with her and see what she is really like...





* I little side note, I saw Manson on Valentines day in SLC (salt lake city) he was awesome...*
Reply:1. Susan Sarandon,because she is such a beautiful person n so very talented.


2. Wynonna Judd because I idolize her


3. Ashley Judd because she's a great actress and seems down to Earth
Reply:Tupac Shakur = He is a genius.





Charles Manson = I would like to get inside his and head and figure out how he could brainwash people and make them actually kill them.





My Great Great Grandmother = She was in the trail of tears and I would've liked to have met her and seen how life was for her.
Reply:1) Miley Cyurs -- I love her Music, and I want a autograph so I can be rich:P





2) my grandad -- he was my idol growing up, and i miss him





3) Pink -- she is the bomb and I think we would have a blast
Reply:1.my ex and now best friend Lisa...cause shes hot lol and my best friend.no one gets me like she does.


2.Jim Adkins from jimmy eat world...hes talented and makes great music. his words are just wow.and he seems really cool.


3.Mike Shinoda from linkin park.....hes hot and awesome.makes great music with the band.
Reply:Adrock, Mike D and MCA of the Beastie Boys
Reply:1) Tupac Shakur- simple fact he was a lyrical genius


2) Sanaa Lathan- I jus love her


3) Queen Latifah- Jus because
Reply:The dalai lama - such an amazing figure against repression


Nelson mandela - think of what he could teach having been through so much crap %26amp; still having the heart to do great things


Tsar Nicholas II - just to find out if he actually had any brains or was his wife the real iron fisted ruler


How do I meet people?

I am a beautiful 21-year old woman. I am a little shy and have trouble meeting men when I go out. How do I meet someone without looking like an idiot? Or how can I "invite" people to approach me?

How do I meet people?
Go out with friends and just have fun. Don't approach the situation "looking" to meet a guy. If you are just being yourself with friends, the guys will approach.
Reply:Take salsa or swing dancing lessons.
Reply:a smile or some other body-language


i would put on a big smile or flirty glance


Where Can I Meet New People My Age?

I'm 20 and running my own web design company. I only get to talk to other business owners 35+ older. Where could I meet new people or maybe even get a side job to meet new people?





Thanks in advance %26amp; have a great day! :)

Where Can I Meet New People My Age?
Any of these sites will work


www.myspace.com


www.yahoo.com and then go to chatrooms


www.yahoo.com/singles/


click on google and search on this topic.
Reply:come to pittsburgh you will find some body like me. Report It

Reply:go out and about maybe do a sport you have to make time for yourself join some sort of club there is lots of ways but you have to make time to do thats the important thing time
Reply:at a, new people my age store.there might be one in a mall near you
Reply:I posted a question here asking for friends, and i have met a really great friend. You could do the same. Just specify that you want a friend or a relationship.
Reply:my space!!!!!!!! lol
Reply:Try attending conferences in your field, like Web Design World 2006; you'll meet dozens of people with identical interests to your own.

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How do I meet people to date around town with out using the internet? Im a guy?

I have been trying to meet some people on the internet but they seem weird all the ones that I have taken out, anyway what do I have to do or what would you suggest that I do to meet people, I am always afraid they have a boyfriend or are married?

How do I meet people to date around town with out using the internet? Im a guy?
go where the normal people are the gym, mall, supermarket (that's where my hubby found me)





not at the bars we are different people at bars
Reply:If you're 21 or older you can check out the bars. Dang, I meet girls just walking across the street - they're everywhere. You're right about not getting mixed up with internet girls.
Reply:in the cafe or a book store. or %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;... let me think enywhere.
Reply:Through work, church, friends or by joining a club. Just be patient.
Reply:well if they are with someone then they will tell you. And that's it. You try again.. It's not the end of the world, they won't cut your head off coz you asked them out..


How did you meet gay people in your life?

Hello.. I have not met guys yet... I am living in MX.. and small city there are not place for gay people.. so how did you meet gay people in your life? school, a gay bar.. or maybe when you were walking on the streets.. you saw someone and maybe this person was gay for you.. he was your friend.. ect.. I hope your answers

How did you meet gay people in your life?
i start meeting gay people when i was 13, 14 in school. there was certain feeling assure me the guy was gay. nothing happened though. when i was 16, i met gay guysin public gym again. some seduced me in the locker. nothing happened though. then i start meeting them more and more often, shopping, on the street, in club, friends of friends....
Reply:With difficulty. Bars and cluybs are always a good start, but if there is none in your area, the net is always a good starting point.
Reply:When I first came out I was involved with lots of queer activist groups, as well as film appreciation groups and literature on campus groups; where people had similiar interests or political beliefs and just happened to be queer as well. Then, I shared a house where all the people were queer, or bisexual and I met alot of people through those people. Later, I found the internet, and went on myspace as well as gay.com (but I wouldnt recommend anyone to gay.com unless you are looking for particularily insincere and superficial type people). Also there are quite a few other gay specific websites like: http://www.planetout.com/http://queerlounge.org/http://www.outpro...


I just did a search in my area, and certain groups came up.
Reply:The same way people meet anyone, in all different situations. Bars, the Mall, work, the Grocery Store...
Reply:You don't make any sense. What makes you think you need a "place for gay people" in order to meet gay people? You meet gay people just as you meet EVERYONE ELSE in your life. The fact that people don't wear their sexual orientation on their foreheads is a good thing--it's none of your business until you become close to them anyway.
Reply:When your a furry you don't have to look hard to find a gay person or animal should I say. It kind of comes with being a furry.
Reply:outfreind.com (use to be myrainbowspace.com) downelink.com is a reallllyyy good site... crushspot.com is for straight people but has a large gay, bi and lesbain population... ummm lol thats all i can think of online but google local gay bars in your area or something
Reply:Ooh I would have to say, parties, bars, and the mall. *sighs* The mall, Someone is bound to look you up and down at the mall, then when they do, move in buddy. Gay hookup sites suck, so you can check www.myspace.com. Browse, then put the age, gender, and zipcode, city and search! Viola sexy papi!
Reply:I met most of my close friends through other acquaintences and through the volunteer work I do in the GLBT community.
Reply:You name it ...I met them there...they were everywhere..
Reply:Try Yahoo groups and see if there is a local or statewide group for gays in your area. That's how I got involved in my state/community. It was VERY supportive!!!
Reply:myspace has a lot of gays and gay sites!Just have to find em!
Reply:I have met gay people just by saying hello to people.





I have met gay people at church, work, the theater, movies, restaurants, on the street, in gay AND straight bars.





When one finds oneself in a small town in Mexico, Taiwan, Georgia, Texas or Uganda one allows oneself to be found!
Reply:I met my first boyfriend when I was in a community musical play. There were some other gay men and women there too because of attraction to the theater and other arts. I live in a small town now and it is difficult after being in a large city most of my adult life.
Reply:I joined the Liberal Party.





good times





(and i'm not even gay...!)
Reply:You probably already know people who are gay!!! Think about it.
Reply:I would say I only have one close gay friend. Umm, I usually meet gay guys at big high school/college parties. I work at abercrombie, so I see young gay guys all the time who try to hit on me. I think it's funny.
Reply:i haven't , and hope i never will.


Id like to meet and chat to people from malta...?

im going to malta soon and would like to talk to some people from malta so i can maybye meet up have drink or cuppy with and get to know more about where im going-want to chat??? or even give me some ideas and im 34 female just love meet someone when get there for show me the ropes or just speak online if prefered to get idea of what to expect-many thanks-be good you hear..........lol

Id like to meet and chat to people from malta...?
you'll find that some of the locals are very talkative, and would gladly chat you up if you show you are interested in conversation over a particular thing!





welcome to malta and hope you enjoy it!
Reply:Are you going for a holiday or to live?? I used to live there so have a few friends I could contact if you need help settling in! Email me - if its a moving thing, as they would be more than happy I am sure!
Reply:I recently visited http://www.malta.cc think you should find chat rooms there too.


Best way to meet people?

I work at a small office and my friends are often busy so I don't really get out much.. so what would be the best way to meet new people? I'm pretty much tired of the bar/club thing since all everyone ever does is try to get drunk, which is pretty boring.





So other than bars and clubs, where's a good place to meet people?

Best way to meet people?
Sounds like my situation to a "T".





What are you interested in? I met new people through my church when we went on a river rafting trip together. I found I truly love rafting and made more new friends. I also enjoy museums and art galleries, jazz music and movies.





Find out what your hobbies are and then get involved in that. Take dance lessons, go to the library or hang out at the bookstore??? There are a lot of ways to meet people with same interests as you.
Reply:Have you thought about getting a part-time teaching job at the local university teaching computer programming? I am a part-time faculty at our community college. I teach beginning computer courses. The university is a wonderful place to meet people as well. Report It

Reply:Church, mall,park, sporting event, casino.
Reply:as stupid and lame as it sounds...go online. it surprisingly works. a couple of my friends actually met people on aol chat or myspace. i even met some friends doing this too and we're all still really great friends. people will think it's lame or funny but it works. if u don't want to do that then go join something...make a new hobby...get creative...there's millions of ways.
Reply:go to the rec center this is programs to do and a night for danceing.
Reply:In a new place to both you and the new girl like parties, in clubs where they dont drink ........
Reply:Gym
Reply:well ian the best way to meet new people is you canj go out to perhapse the mall, park, or somewhere where there's lots of people and then just try -n- talk k!! :)

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How do you meet people?

my fiance and I moved to a new city about a year ago so I could go to school. I've made a few school friends, but due to a major social set back during my first university degree I've become incredibly introverted, and I hardly ever feel like doing things with them outside of school. I want to make friends, but being so shy it's difficult. I'm not into the bar scene so I hardly ever go out with the girlfriends I've made here, and they're starting to leave me out because I never want to go out with them. I'm really bad with speaking to people first, so I'm not exactly sure what I can do to meet people. My fiance and I both like to go out to restaurants and to coffee houses, movies etc, but none of them seem to be conducive to meeting people. I'm also having a hard time finding book clubs in our area that aren't full of old people (no offense of course, but we're both in our early 20's). I'd love to stop spending more time with my cats then with actual people. Help!

How do you meet people?
learn to say hi...hi im danys
Reply:ya i had the same problem, the best way is to put yourself out there, make the first move talk to class mates ask questions that can lead to conversations ... take your time you would fine some people to be friends with..
Reply:Both joining with a bowling league. If you like to bowl. A mixed group or all girl league. Belonging to an exercise club if you want to eat healthy and lose weight or just to tone your body to stay as you are! They have unisex men %26amp; woman or just same sex clubs. Belong to a swimming pool club for making friends or just the fun of it! Have a great day and make some decisions on making friends and doing things you like to do with other people you like to be with!
Reply:Go to grocery store and ask girls for advice how to cook this, or what you need to make that, make a plan and go, go ,go.
Reply:What I found interesting is that you have no problem expressing yourself in words. I wish you could channel that energy in a conversation with a person. You have the potential. I'd try connecting with the known friends you have. Strengthening relationships. If you can't connect with them, meeting others in different places won't improve things, you'll just continue the same problems. What does you fiance say?
Reply:I usually just say" Hello " that is the best one ,,,and smile..
Reply:have like a small dinner for them, celebrate something at your house. i am not an alcoholic but shy people are the best drunks ever.
Reply:Ironically, you and your boyfriend sound like a couple of seniors, why not join them for bingo and book club, you might actually enjoy yourself. You can actually have fun w/ people of any age if you have an open mind.
Reply:just try makin a positiv atitude and you'll get som frends,





by the way u wanna be mi friend, just contac me! i got a whole leap of friends but i ain't worried about getting alot more
Reply:get on the internet, find chat clubs, you might have to get out of your protective shell %26amp; ghet some nerve up to actually minghle at some of the bars or clubs around, take vitamins, get your attitude on a better level, you sound depressed, go rollar skating, join in different teams of sports, get yourself involved in doing stuff besides staying home, playing with the cat, get out, walk around, do some window shopping, have a smikle on your face, wear sexy clothes to be noticed, so what if people take advanage of you, you want to be popular, you will get what you are looking for when you get yourself noticed by others who think that you are cool %26amp; you can handle yourself in any situation, learn self-defense to ward off the perverts %26amp; sex related people unless you want sex then go for it,
Reply:wow sorry no clue
Reply:My fiance and I are also in our 20's and are experiencing the same problem except we have not moved.We just don't seem to have the same priorities as people we've already known in our age group.I plan on trying to do more things that we're interested in and frequenting places and activities we like and maybe we'll begin to notice faces and can build some new mutual friendships.
Reply:just go out
Reply:don't know
Reply:Well nothing against old people as i am 49 but book clubs would be nice even if people my age or older are there as they might have children your ages. If you tell them that you are new to town , they might introduce to there children as they would know if you would get along or not. Also try a bowling league. Most churches have young couples clubs also.Next semester take a speech class that should help bring you out of your shell.
Reply:If you want to spend more time with girlfriends you've already made why don't you have a movie night or something along those lines avoid the bars stay in or out to dinner but still get to be with ur friends more. :)
Reply:be yourself friends will come to you!!
Reply:Start with a HI..





Talk..


know..


and leave it..


True Friends will come to you.


best to wait until they find you!


so that you get the cream out of many..


anyway Cheers...





there isnt any typical way of meeting ppl... i feel..


it just happen...and let it happen...
Reply:at work,parties****************************...
Reply:Going out and living a nice life!
Reply:Here goes...go to church, join a gym, take classes in something, learn a new hobby/sport, volunteer anywhere they take them. If you're not working get a job. If you are working seek people who share your interests at work. Get a dog and take the dog on walks or to a park where other people take their pets.
Reply:join a health club together
Reply:try church u will know god he is all u need he will be your best friend


How can i meet foreign people to practice language, impossible?

I'm an american with hispanic roots,26yrs old . i see foreign people(tourists/students) in the street but that means nothing, as they are students or busy people..they have their friends already they don't need me. MOreover, these people almost never use web posting websites like craiglists, and there is no way to meet them...unless you're in school. So what else can i do? i'm not a person who goes clubbing and stuff like that. the only places i frequent are library, bookstore, supermarket things like that. My language of study is japanese , ...in my city there are language clubs or communities for French, German, and Spanish but not really asian languages..so its very hard. But i see lots of japanese people visiting, tourists, students. Is there anything one can do to contact them. And i'm not a person who just picks up people in the street, i would meet them gladly if it was through some arranged program or something. any help?

How can i meet foreign people to practice language, impossible?
Try your local university or a language school in the area. They usually have language exchange programs.


Can 2 people meet in their dreams?

I've heard that when we're asleep our souls can travel. I was wondering if its possible for two people who live miles and miles away can meet in their dreams? Can both of their souls meet on some astral plain? If so will both people dream the same thing?

Can 2 people meet in their dreams?
When I was young my dad and I had the same nightmare. He didn't live with me and I was frightened to go to sleep so my mom called my dad and found out he had a nightmare too. Turns out we both had the same strange nightmare that night..





So I actually think its possible. I would doubt it is very common though. I guess there is no way to prove it either way since nobody could ever test such a thing :)
Reply:I bet the Flying Spaghetti Monster has the answer to that question.
Reply:Yes, but usually one of you forget, the best way is to phone your friend and wake them immediately and discuss it, just don't go telling everyone!





I usually do this only to my closest, closest friends. That amounts to like two people in my lifetime! That when i feel they need a little help and display their ability to understand it.
Reply:Depends on what your thinking about.


Very unlikely but still possible.


You should make VERY HARD attempts or it WILL be IMPOSSIBLE.


How do you meet people in your 20s?

1. I am 27 years old, and I live in a suburb, 45 minutes from a major city.





2. Why does it seem tougher to meet/date at this age than it did when in college? Is it just in my mind??





3. Any advice/tips on how to meet people/get dates at the age of 27?





PEZ

How do you meet people in your 20s?
it's just in your mind...





go to bar or something like that...or go to mall! i bet you can meet some people
Reply:Network!





Friends! Surely you have a buddy that has a girlfriend... that has a friend that can network with her friends to find someone compatible with you!





If you are out of college, I presume you are working! What about co-workers? No, not suggesting you date them, but most people that we work with know more about us than we realize!





They may also know the perfect person for you!





Of course, if you are int he 'burbs... there is always Wal-Mart! heheheeh
Reply:maybe because now your not 18-24 your 27 now and i guess people that just get about over 24 dont go on those dateing sites anymore.
Reply:Well nothing really compares to College. I mean thats as easy as it will ever get. But, after college it gets a little harder, but not that hard if your not afraid to approach people and chat. Just get out as aften as possible, and go into the city. Lots of single people enjoy the city night life. Just stay away from your house as much as you can and you'll meet someone. If that doesn't work theres always myspace and other Internet sites.

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How do you meet people after graduating university?

I just recently graduated from university and have a job now, but it's harder to meet people than it was in college. There's no classes or extracurriculars so I was wondering if anyone else was experiencing a similar problem or some things others do to meet people.

How do you meet people after graduating university?
Why is it that people can't seem to find other people to date? People are everywhere. What do you need, someone with a sign that says, "I'd like to date you"? You were smart enough to graduate college, surely you're smart enough to impress a girl for a date. Go to parties, the malls, the grocery stores etc. Come on, get out there and mingle with people.


How do people get to meet celebrities?

I'm always reading about a star going to meet someone who wanted to meet them,called them, answered their letter,etc.I always wondered how these people were actually able to accomplish getting to meet their favorite celebrity.Can anyone answer

How do people get to meet celebrities?
M, Twist, J-14, all those teen gossip mags are having "Meet (blank)" or "(blank) will call you!" contests and whoever wins gets the big prize :)
Reply:meet n greets and stuff. once i met zac efron when i was visiting ca. it was so cool. my sister got so starstruck lol
Reply:why would you want to??





Celebrities are just over paid.. over glamified people...





greedy.. vain..





they are the reason every thing you buy costs so much.. yup - each TV show requires the actors to get paid.. they get paid by commercials - thus inflating the price of your products...





what do they do?? I mean sure they entertain.. but so does my husband.. hes dam entertaining... and FREE!!!!!


your pets probably entertain you too.. kids, family, friends





trust me the really important people are the ones you already meet and know... there is no need to meet a celebrity.
Reply:Try joining fan clubs or maybe attending Fan Conventions. Being a Scifi nut myself I have met many fave stars at cons. And despite what William Shatner says, we are NOT geeks who annoy them. Many of these actors are very nice, and will often take pics with you as well as autograph anything you hand them.


Hope this helps.
Reply:good luck with that i have no idea
Reply:contests , most likely. listen to your local music radio station. :]

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Meet new people?

i am a teenage girl, coping life with school works and stuff. so im interested to meet new people of my age from other countries, talk and exchange thoughts, which website will be best forthis besides these common myspace, facebook or friendster thingy?

Meet new people?
You can use yahoo also to make friends, even on this page.


How can I meet and talk to people on Yahoo! that live in my town?

I want to meet people that are in my town, create friendships, and then possibly meet them someday!


Is there any way I can do that?





Thanks!

How can I meet and talk to people on Yahoo! that live in my town?
I guess you could post your city and state and see who responds, but be careful, you never know who you will get. Good Luck.
Reply:u prolly shouldn't!


Good ways to meet new people?

What are good ways to meet new people in ACT? Places that you can generally go by yourself or a couple of friends to meet alot of people? Other than clubs and pubs.

Good ways to meet new people?
malls
Reply:stop looking for true friends and potential relationships come to when you at least expect it! Just be yourself and enjoy life - the rest will fall into place!
Reply:Myspace or Facebook - you can meet alot of different people there, male %26amp; female.
Reply:Church. You can join the Young Adults Fellowship or any activities... they're loads of fun to be with.
Reply:ACT - Australian Capital Territory?


hmm thats a hard one.





i would say





hang on a sec.


let me get back to you.





EDIT -





you say no clubs/pubs...does this mean your under 18?





regardless of age, you could -


-volunteer


- join a sports team


- catch a bus/train, and speak to someone who looks friendly...may be easy to compliment them on something...like, i like your watch....you or something.


- walk your dog in a local park...and smile and say hi to people you pass.


- take some dancing classes... [its a real hit with the girls!]








ok...


- go to your local skate park.


- meet your friends friends.


- throw a party......get people to invite people [maybe not a great idea.....]


- get your 'rents to take you on a holiday, maybe up here to the gold coast - loads of lovely people up 'ere.





just always be confident, and always smile....be outgoing and it may be uncomfortable to start up a convo with a complete random, but you guys may become the best of friends...


you never know..


and the last thing you want to wonder is,


what would have happened,


or,


if only...


How can I meet more people?

First things first, I am 24 years old. I go to college, but I only take one class with only 4 other people, all of them male and over 40 (Computer networking). At work, I work with four women, but they are all over 50. I really am feeling like crap. I wanna go out and party, hang out at people's houses. Meet a girl or two (or three...lol), and just socialize a lot more with people my age... Yet, it seems like my life is totally set up to NOT meet new and interesting people my age. Is there anything I can do to change this up? I'm kind of out of ideas, since I live 30 miles away from school, and its a Community College (with no fraternities or sororities). And I don't really want to change jobs, cause I like it.





Does anyone have any ideas? I'm pretty open to suggestions, cause my life seems really stale right now, and I don't want it to be that way!

How can I meet more people?
Online dating is a good idea. Or try to join some sort of organization. I don't know much about community college but I'm sure they have some sort of groups that you could meet people in. Or take a fun class, like dancing or art or something. That way the people you meet will already have a common interest.





Go to places and just talk to people. It might be kind of hard, but it's worth a try. Go to a coffee shop or bar (not a crazy club or anything, one that you can talk to people in) or even a grocery store or something. And just talk about something random and try to keep the conversation going long enough, and maybe they'll ask you what you're doing after that, or something. Good luck!
Reply:My only suggestion is to try online dating. You don't have to use the sites just for dating, and there is a wide variety of people from all over to pick from.





Good luck with your search!

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How Do I Meet People?

Im moving out soon, graduating and all...


and im moving to a big city where i know no one.


im thinking of taking a year off before school to get myself settled in my new city and make some money.


now im worried i wont meet anyone within that year without school.


how do i go about meeting people?


any help would be MUCH apreciated.


thank you :)

How Do I Meet People?
ummm myspace?





malls,librarys,or if you get a job your oviously gonna meet ppl %26amp;%26amp; from there you;ll go on they might invite you somewear w/ there frends %26amp;%26amp; you;ll start meeting more ppl.





i supose.


or get involved.
Reply:DONT TAKE A YEAR OFF


Do you like meet foreigns people?

Girls and boys,do you like meet foreigns people?


Hi,


I'm Francesca,I'm 15 and I'm Italian.I love meet foreigns people,so if you want,send me an email or add me on MSN Messenger with this address:





fm.dharma@hotmail.it





...Is an address I use only for this,so you can't have personal informations of me,if I wan't...I know safety in internet is very important!





PS:Sorry for the mistakes ^_^

Do you like meet foreigns people?
I'd love to!
Reply:yep! it's very fun :)


How do I meet new people/friends?

I Just moved to an average sized town and started going to school. I don't have a job at the moment. I want to meet people and make new friends but im not extremely outgoing and im only 19. Im sick of being alone and having nothing to do here. Any suggestions would be great and don't say myspace. Maybe even some help on meeting some people at school, as it seems like everyone is on there own schedule there and doesn't really want anything to do with me. Oh, and trust me when i say I am a decent looking guy.

How do I meet new people/friends?
well i can relate with this type of question 100 % i mean i move every year to a dif state! it pretty much sucks but it has helped me become more social and approachable at skool and just about everywhere.. well what i do is basically ask a question to a person next toyou.. it can b at skool,work or anywhere just get a conversation started. persoanlly i like to ask questions. maybe compliment them on something and that will get something started. dont b affraid to b yourself.
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Reply:Hi Chris my answer is simple and clear "Be a friend yourself to others and they will be your friends too"


All the best.
Reply:maybe join myspace.com? I did and its really fun, Iv met a ton of cool people! some of them Iv met in person, and found even more neato! NOTE: be careful!





but if you want to get out more, then go out side and just start talking to everyone you see, and most likely you will find a place where there are alot of neat people to hang with.


or ask around if there is like a sports team or a knitting group, depending on what you like to do.


How do you meet new people where you don't have any social ties?

I recently moved to the Jacksonville, FL area about 4 months ago and have yet to make any friends over here. No one at work really does anything or goes anywhere. Im always looking to go out and meet new friends. Any suggestions where I can go or what I can do to meet new people?

How do you meet new people where you don't have any social ties?
I made new freinds by being outgoing or you can ask onthis site if anyone lives around you and if they want to be freinds I met a few people on here and I have freinds fromTiwan and England even though they are not here I still have freinds!!
Reply:Go to the "Cheers" bar on I think Blanding Blvd in Orange Park. I used to work there, it still has the same manager and it's a great bunch of people. grin. Really, whatever you like to do, start doing it and you'll run in to people with similar interests. Get on a local chat site and let them know your interests, etc. Start chatting with people and you will find someone to hang out with.
Reply:What are your interest? Do you like sports? Join a local team at a community center. Do you like art? Take a class at a community center, college, or after school program (I don't know how old you are. Do you like to sing? Join a choir.
Reply:Go to the bars or games around the area! Check in you neighborhood, and see if any have the same interests!

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How can I meet people?

I am not a really outgoing person. I am in college, but I don't care for the party scene. I do things I like, but don't really meet anyone, let alone girls. I am kind of a simple person, but I can be funny and my friends back home say I am fun to be around, I just don't know how to meet new people. I am really lonely and need someone in my life. If anything, where could I find more help?

How can I meet people?
Meeting people is a skill. Like any skill, it can be learned. You don't have to spend the rest of your life being lonely. Just devote time to developing your 'Meeting People' skills the way you are spending time developing your Chemistry or Math skills. Here is a website that will help you to do that:





http://www.meet-people.ws/How_To_Meet_Pe...





Once you have mastered your 'Meeting People' skills, here are some suggestions about WHERE and HOW to meet people:





http://www.squidoo.com/Meet-People





You are not alone. There are HUNDREDS and THOUSANDS of people like you. The problem is that most stay home and never meet each other, prefering just to avoid life. Dont make this mistake.





Take steps now to develop your 'meeting people' skills and if you stay with it, in a few months your days of lonliness will be history.
Reply:you can e-mail me at sweetheart93304o8@yahoo.com......and I will chat with you and if you have a myspace i will give you that as well.
Reply:well, you could email me
Reply:you have a place that has all kinds of girls and you can't find one maybe your so shy your not going out. Best thing to do is go to fuctions, frstivals, games, and other activities where there will be girls and ahve a looksy and maybe you will see one. Or else make as many friends as you can abd they can help out
Reply:In college I joined a club that was related to one of my interests. I met a lot of wonderful people who became my friends. Members have even asked me out.





Your college should have some interest groups that might appeal to you. Check with your Student Association.





When you say you're not really an outgoing person, are you shy? Try the counselling department then.
Reply:I have a friend like that. I told him to go out to a restaurant that has a small bar, and eat your meal there. Like Outback steak House. My friend did this and he found someone. You can also go on a singles cruise, if you get the time.


How can I meet safe, nice, caring people who are also interested in fun & experimental sex.?

I live in a small town and find that it's hard to meet people in general, let alone single, attractive people my age (30-40) for dating. Of course, I have thought of moving, but that's several months down the road. I know there are lots of people on the internet looking for sexual experiences, but it's hard (impossible) to tell the true character of the person if it ever came to meeting in person. I've never been a bar type, but maybe that is my best option. I don't have any friends or acquaintances who are swingers who could hook me up. Any ideas?

How can I meet safe, nice, caring people who are also interested in fun %26amp; experimental sex.?
I suggest the internet. You'l meet more people like you online than anywhere else. I met my bf online and we've been together for a year.





It seems odd, but in our technological age its becoming more and more acceptable. There are sites specifically made for people interested in fetishes, just hook ups, and real relationships. Lavalife is a good site, with a section for "Friends, Love, and Just Sex". AdultFriendFinder has more of a connection to sex, and fetish thigns and I believe its free.





Hope I helped.
Reply:You forgot to mention if you are male or female.
Reply:In a church.
Reply:Tripe, utter tripe.
Reply:Any one who will be interested in fun and experimental sex is not going to be very safe or caring and only maybe nice. What your asking for is a shallow and reckless person.
Reply:eharmony.
Reply:if you are a f sen me a email cicho658@yahoo.com


How can i meet Foreign people who do not discriminate me?

I want to meet japanese, chinese, or korean..or someone for language exchange but i find it hard since i'm a hispanic american, and usually those people want to learn english . i speak english but i don't speak it like a white person, and the english that is advertised in movies and by english teachers who go abroad, is english that the talkative outgoing people, many times white people who don't have accents. My english is just simple and i have an accent. I've attempted many times to meet foreign people but they never consider me american because of my voice or because of my personality. what to do?

How can i meet Foreign people who do not discriminate me?
Where do you live? Part of the problem might be that you are not putting up the right type of ad. There is no surefire way of finding the right people -- at the end of the day, it's going to take time and a bit of luck to find someone who's interested in who you are rather than an "idea" English speaker. Why not foreground who you are -- let people know what you're interested in and who you are, and let the ad do the filtering. If I may, how's this for an ad: (you can put this up at Asian cultural centers, at one of the consulates...basically anywhere where you think someone interesting might see it)





Language and Cultural Exchange: I am a Hispanic male/female looking to meet a Japanese/Korean/ Mandarin/Cantonese speaker interested in getting together for regular language and cultural exchange. Teach me about your language and culture, and I can help you with basic English, Spanish and can introduce you to Hispanic culture in America.


Where can one meet other young, creative and like minded people?

Back in London after some time away, I'm young, early twenties and I have no idea where to make friends and meet other like minded people around my age?





I'm not really into going out drinking/clubbing/partying much so meeting people at these places won't happen...





I like arts/music and I'm well traveled and educated... I thought maybe I could join somewhere like Soho house or the Hospital club in convent garden...


But have found out that vast majority of the members there are a lot older as most young people cannot afford the price of membership (sometimes around £600) and even if they could they would spend it on partying right?





Is there any other place? Could be a members club with a young cool crowd that isn't revolved around late night alcohol binges?





Any tips will be appreciated! x

Where can one meet other young, creative and like minded people?
i would say british library and british musuem, also cafes nearby. keep a lookout on notice boards about groups, clubs and commitees to do with this place.also if you are foreign contact your embassy about societies for example a 'scandinavian society' for those from that area wishing to meet others and socialise. i also suggest the theatre and art galleries, their cafes and notice boards for groups etc.


London is buzzing with ALL types of people..... good luck!
Reply:Take some courses and hang out there
Reply:Join the Royal Navy.


Give something to everything Engish besides lip service.

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Where do you meet people to date when you are in your 30's?

It is so hard to find people to date or meet them....any suggestions on where to meet people when you are in your 30's?

Where do you meet people to date when you are in your 30's?
Great suggestions from others before me. But how about your friends. Do any of them know of anyone that is around your age and also single and looking. Don't worry you will find someone when you least expect it. Funny that it usually happens that way.
Reply:A bar? A church? A store? Let me ask you something? Are you dumb? Or just plain stupid?
Reply:I think people in our age group are all asking the same question. Yet, what I have found is that a lot of people are doing the internet thing, clubbing and bar hoping. It just depends I guess on the type of person you are. I think you'll meet someone when you least expect it and somewhere when you weren't looking for them. It's really hard to say, but try putting a picture out on the internet and see what happens or church or maybe the library or something like a coffee house/internet cafe.
Reply:i believe everyone should just go about their life and don't try so hard on making love come to them! love will find you! the Internet is not the way! nor is a bar scene!!
Reply:In a laundramat, most guys who go there to do their wash, are single ( if they were married, their wives would be doing the laundry, CERTAINLY NOT the man )I know, because I met my now husband in a laundry !


Where can I meet people?

I tend to be very reserved with new people. Though I'm not really shy, I have difficulty connecting at first and am not really sure where to meet people (I'm what you may call "socially challenged"). I'm a single, 24-year-old woman, and I'd like to meet other singles, both men and women, for friendship or, possibly, for romance. I don't drink, so nightclubs, bars, and such are not that appealing to me. I also have a limited budget, so I'd rather try something that is either free or relatively inexpensive. I'd be very grateful for any good ideas you can come up with.

Where can I meet people?
Hi June





There was a website created just for people like you. It is full of ideas. Not only where to meet people, but how to meet people. Just know that your not alone, there are thousands of people who dont meet people easily. The fact that you do not meet people easily does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. It just means that you have not yet learned how.





The essence of the website is that, meeting people, is a skill. Like any other skill it takes development, work and practice. This website gives tips on how to go about that. Check it out and let us know your comments about it!





G.S.
Reply:Walking . Go to Church. Volunteer
Reply:i am the same........all of it. you cannot look for companionship, thats when you miss it, just live life and try and try enjoy it till you meet him. what state are you in? what are you in to? whhat kind of gjuys ar ein oyur area? plus you should turn on im's and emails on here so people can contact you to meet people.....im not trying to hook up but i was gunna try and im you and discuss this more to help, but couldn't.....im me if you want help.
Reply:hi
Reply:go for a walk in the park, or read a book there regularly...meet the soccer team. or join the team. extra points if u bring a puppy! :) i have the same problem as you...all in all hangout in public free spaces. or go to museums...they often have afternoon mixers...check their schedules...im starting to do that...or go to art galleries...they are free, and lots of grat people go there that want to meet new people. you will get the social setting of a party without having to drink. good luck!
Reply:Church singles groups.Start going to churches, find one you like that has alot of people your age attending and join their singles group.Its a great way to meet trustworthy friendly people even if some of them are naive.
Reply:Try coffee houses, A.A. meetings, things of that source.


Where can i meet new people online for free?

Please help.


I would love to meet new people to student exchange wiith.


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Or just meet new friends from other counttries ..x..


Pleasee ... ?


Thanks !

Where can i meet new people online for free?
yea you could join myspace or facebook


or any of those blog sites!
Reply:go to pogo.com they have free games and you meet lots of new people.
Reply:Facebook!!!
Reply:that's easy,


try yahoo messenger, or just participate in the myspace.com community.


Where do I meet people?

I'm 18 and I recently dropped out of high school due to medical problems. I've left everything I've always known and I've tasted 'adult life'. I have a few friends that aren't in high school, and I love hanging out with them. It's nice to get away from the hifh school drama and have adult convos. I really want to meet new people but I'm not real outgoing. I have no idea where to start. I can't legally drink so bars are kinda out of the question. Where do I meet decent young adults?

Where do I meet people?
how about this
Reply:if you want to meet a guy i suggest going out to a club sometime (theres lots of 18+ clubs) and theres TONS of guys there. also, theres always lots of people at malls, just walk into a store and work up the courage to start a conversation with someone. if you get a group of girls together and then just go walking around a mall/shopping center/boardwalk/whatever im sure youll get the attention of a group of guys
Reply:in church
Reply:Well, if you like the artsy types, you can look into things like contra and swing dancing--that really helped a shy guy friend of mine. There are also coffee houses that have local bands...you can get into the music/social scene that way. Also, you could look into a community theater, band, or choir. Even if you don't like performing yourself, there is always a need for doing things like building and moving sets, working the ticket booth, etc. If you are spiritual but can't deal with the church thing, there are always things like drum circles and other more "new age" spiritual fellowship experiences. If you care about your environment or politics you can get involved in activist groups or do volunteer work of some sort. Don't forget things like hiking clubs, either. You can also take classes of different sorts, like a cooking class. You'll be gaining a useful life skill-feeding yourself well--while meeting people. Granted, they may be older women, but older women like to fix nice girls up with their sons and friends, so it is still another source of introduction to new crowds of people.





Remember that even if the people you meet don't seem like your type because of age, appearance, etc...people have friends and family they can introduce you to. Stay open to possibilities and develop your own interests and hobbies, and the people that you will meet as a result of that will ultimately be more compatible and have more substance than people you are likely to just meet at a bar, party, or dance club, because you will already have something in common to base a relationship on.





Good luck and happy socializing. I hope your medical problems are resolved and you will be able to get that GED you'll be needing to get along in this society. You are young and can do anything with your life--it's wide open for you.
Reply:Try a church group ( or whatever relilgion you follow), or do you have any hobbies? Like sports? For instance, you can join a writing group if you like writing, or a tennis club if you llike to play tennis. Good Luck.
Reply:at a gym


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Reply:not online, that's for sure.
Reply:Let me get this straight: You can't finish school because of "medical problems", but you can hang out in bars?





Do yourself a favor - get all the education you can. If you don't, you will have no choice but to punish yourself down the line.





That said, a particular high school may not be your bag. I mean, government schools suck. Some government schools REALLY suck. But at 18 (or younger) you don't know sh1t from shinola. (You may think you do - but you don't.)





Forget "meeting people" and concentrate on learning... before it's too late.
Reply:The best place to met people is on a campus or church get together. If you get mor involved in community projects you will met people around your community.
Reply:anywhere. just get out of the house

gumps

Wheres the best place to meet people(not dating)?

Im not asking for like a place to meet guys or anything its just that i love meeting new people and ive been talking to randome people online but its not really the safest. Idk, and schools fun and all but my friends dont seen as open to knew experiences and and i wana meet some peoeple who are a little more easy going ....

Wheres the best place to meet people(not dating)?
you could take up a new sport, join a gym, find some sort of "group activity" (art class?) where you would be exposed to others.





i'll even suggest church, even though i don't attend myself.
Reply:mall or park
Reply:Join clubs, organization. Throw a party-ask people to invite their friends as well. Try different groups of people and u'll meet their friends. Go talk to yr neighbors.
Reply:Candy I'd suggest that if you have any interests or hobbies that you join a group of like minded individuals. This way not only would you be meeting new folks but also be able to relate to and enjoy discussing the things you both have in common.
Reply:Through your friends. At parties, or have a party, at the beach. Like a bonfire, and invite lots of different people and ask them to bring friends. YOu may end up meeting a lot of cool people that way.
Reply:I would say the best is to pick up a hobby, join a club or take short courses, maybe a language or some other skill. You will expand your social circle. Try to go out in a group more often - your friends will have other friends as well. Online is not the best place.
Reply:yes
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Reply:Church, best and the oldest form of socializing
Reply:try www.rankdate.com I met alot of cool people on there. its a photo rating site and you get to meet and talk to people. Its TEEN only
Reply:every chills in a group hang out with 1 firned introduces u 2 new firned and ext. u can also join the gym really good thing 2 do. go to the park pretty good place 2 meet some ppl. Attend alot of partys. on thwe subway also may not seem liek it but subway nd buss always good u talk 2 some 1 nd u kno u tlak 2 dem till they get off nd stuff nd u meet some ppl like dat i meet a few girls liek dat. stores are always good like young ppl are cashiers talk 2 the peros nu see alot workin there i made about 10 new firends like dat try getin new hobies sports nd stuff


How/Where to meet people at 20 years old?

Hey all; I'm 20 years old, and I want to know where I can meet people. Through some wierd stuff last semester I'm not going back to my college until at least next fall, so for now I'm just working and saving up money, but I have a lot of free time. Since it's the school year though, all my friends my own age went back to college, so I only have a few people to spend time with. Everyone at my job is either way older or way younger than me. I was wondering where/how I can meet people my own age. I've heard church is a good place, so I'm considering that. Any other options?

How/Where to meet people at 20 years old?
What state/city do you live in? I'm also 20years old, and when you go to clubs you meet a lot of ppl(depending on the kind of person you are). I went to Saddle Ranch and there is soo much people interacting there, its really GREAT! I would suggest try going to a place where other people are willing to talk to other people, not just people from their circle.


How can I meet gay people in my small town? I can't detect gay or bi people unless they are girlie or effemina

I live in Mexico in a small town.. but I dont know to meet people I feel so lonely withou to meet people from my own preferences sorry if my english is bad I am doing my best thanks for answering well

How can I meet gay people in my small town? I can't detect gay or bi people unless they are girlie or effemina
Many gays come from small towns without any gays :) That feels lonely. I hope you cope. You will. One day you will meet more gays then you would wish :) One advantage for you is that you grow up in the internet age... perhaps you can still meet people online ? ¡Suerte!
Reply:You might want to check out your town and see if their are any organizations for social events, or check the net for a dating service. If you do decide to meet up with someone from the net, take him or her and a friend to a mini golf course. Not only will you have a friend with you, you will have a club in your hand and daylight. =)
Reply:I was told by a gay friend that the way to tell who might be gay or bi is if the person holds your eyes when you look at them. Most people look away in 3 seconds or less (male or female) if they don't know you, so anyone who looks back and holds for more than 4 seconds is interested (or needs glasses).
Reply:Unfortunately, many non-hetero people living in small towns eventually find it necessary to move to a larger city in order to find a decent selection of people like them. There's no certain way to detect this - and sometimes effeminate men don't even turn out to be gay. It will probably take you some time to hone your instincts at picking out other gay or bi people. Meanwhile, you might be better off, and also safer, if you consider moving to a bigger city with a healthy gay community.
Reply:most of my gay friends are in the arts, not that all artists are gay, just that is the community where I have met the most gay people. Many gay people are afraid to come out and tell people in public. I am not sure how to locate gay people, you might have more luck looking on the internet for gay dating sites, that might be a good place to find gay people. I am sure a service exists for that. I have never searched before.





search google for gay activist sites, i am sure they exist, if you become a member you should be able to find more gay people that you can hang out with





good luck with that, I know it is difficult to feel isolated and alone and different from everyone else, in a city where not many people like you exist. I grew up filipino in a city that was probably 70% white and did not grow up around many filipinos. It is not the same as being gay, but I felt different then my other friends.
Reply:Not sure that the small town mind set is ready for you. Depends on where you live and how safe it would be to come out..I'd vote for basic dating type,internet or others to maybe get an idea if there are others that feel the same ways as you.I am a very big supporter of Gay/Lesbian rights and always fear for you from the less educated religous and not so accepting right.So be careful,have fun and good luck hope you find a real group of people that you can feel free to be your self with.I applaud you and support you, and I am a voter for your rights and decent treatment.You GO Babe!!


Meet New People?

Is there anyone 21+ that would like to meet a new person. I am one of those people I am 23 years old who is looking for someone who is mature and down to earth to get to know. I don't have many friends and I decided I will make the first move to get to know people! I really would like to make new friends..I often look at friendship movies and wish that I could have whats on TV...Is there anyone like myself??

Meet New People?
Email me hun, all my info is in the profile. You can never have to many friends.
Reply:yeah I will be your friend. I'm new around here as well, I only know people in my church. I am 24 almost 25.
Reply:amen to that, only I'm 42, and its the same for me
Reply:you are still young and pretty ,you will have a lot of time to meet peopleand that life your wishing for will happen.
Reply:Hey whats up

toothache

When I Meet People And Tell Them I'm Gay?

Before I meet people I tell them straight up that i'm gay and I make sure that they are ok with this. So When I meet them in person they always assume i'm going to be really feminine %26amp; "sweet". Then when I tell them that i'm not like that they are shocked. Why do some people stereotype gay people this way? Are you quilty of doing this yourself? :)

When I Meet People And Tell Them I'm Gay?
People have already formed opinions about all types of people.


They think if you're Black, you're going to be loud, obnoxious, and arrogant; Asian, you're good at math; White, well spoken, and gay, you are flamboyant and flaunt it like the stereotypical gay 'character' does.


This is why people don't need to judge others by the people they run into and assume that everyone like the person they meet are going to be all the same.


I'll admit, I get loud when my son's are playing ball. I get obnoxious when I see injustice against someone with a disability, and I am arrogant in thinking that my children are the best looking boys on the earth. All of these things are true of me, but they don't all come out at the same time. When a person runs into someone that displays these tendencies, they just naturally 'lump' all the other people of that race, orientation, or nationality to be the same way.


That's why it's so important that people not judge an entire group by some of the idiots WE'RE ashamed of in how they act. I have a lot of gay male friends who are masculine, smart, and don't do the 'two snaps with a twist'. They are well educated and know how to act in public.


We let our hair down, don't think that we don't, but we have a little more refinement when it comes to being in public; hence, they know how to be gentlemen and still be who they are.


I hope that this helps!
Reply:Why do you feel that it's necessary to tell everyone that you are gay, even before you meet them? Is it relevant? I mean, I don't tell everyone that I'm straight. It sounds like a challenge to me. "Hi, I'm Gay, got a problem with that"? Why do you "make sure" they are OK with it? Do you engage in sexual behavior with everyone you meet? Do you only associate with people who approve of homosexuality? It seems to me that being gay or straight would be just an incidental fact in your ordinary life. What has it got to do with anything? I meet hundreds of people in my everyday life, and I've never one time needed to know the sexual orientation of the person I'm talking to, nor was I inclined to ask. Even if I know a person is gay or straight, what possible difference does it make? I just don't get the focus on sex preferences.
Reply:I grew up with lesbians in my family, so I can't answer the second part of your question. But as for the first, its probably that they've only seen gays on television and such, which stereotypes horribly. (As they do for most "groups.")





I grew up in a very rural area and city people often act shocked when I can form intelligent sentences for the same reason.
Reply:why do you have the need to tell people this? i don't go up to people and tell them who i screw. i dont care who you screw.
Reply:those people are loser they shouldn't care what a person is because if they really wanted to be friends they would look past that
Reply:Why do you do that? When I meet people I don't say am straight...its not like I plan on flirting with everyone.


Monday, November 16, 2009

How to meet people on cruise ships?

I am 14 and am going on a cruise this summer. I want to meet a lot of people and have a really good time, but I am kind of shy at first. Last cruise, i went into the teen club but like everybody seemed to know everyone and it was awkward so i left. How can i meet people this year?

How to meet people on cruise ships?
At least go and check out the activity group for your age on the first day of the cruise. You'll meet others your age to hang out with, even if you don't want to do any of the organized activities.





Also, you might want to check out CruiseCritic.com. Click on "Boards" at the top of the page and then go to the board for your cruise line. You could also check out the "Roll Call" board for your particular sailing - people go there to "chat" [not in real time] about their upcoming cruise and get to know each other a bit before they sail. Often the group will get together early on in the cruise. You could arrange to do that with other teens. There is also a section on "Teens" or something like that [or the "Family Cruising" board] that you might want to check.





Try to just relax and strike up a conversation with other teens around the pool, etc. They're probably just as shy as you feel.





Have a great time! [But be careful and behave!!]
Reply:I have the same question. Im kinda shy 2 what i try to do is look for someone thats easy to talk to. Theres people in the same position that your in so their lookin for people to meet 2.
Reply:You meet people on a cruise ship the same way you meet people in your home town. If you aren't comfortable meeting people, then it doesn't matter where you are... you still won't meet anyone.
Reply:Well the teenagers club seems to be a good option for you. But dont force it. Dont go there to make friends just go there to have a good time and take friendship as a bonus. Either you ran into a large group of friends on your last cruise or you assumed theyre where friends because theyre where talking and so on. But think of it like this: There are like 3000 guests on a normal sized cruise ships and x number of theese are kids at your own age. The passengers are from all across the world so whats the risk that everybody except you knows eachother? Get in there, relax and have fun! Johan


Want to meet people but hate parties?

I am a college student and i really want to meet a guy thats boyfriend material and some more people to be friends with, but the only thing is I really hate going to typical house parties and bars. I dont really drink, but I will every now and then. Im not a dork or anything, but what the average college student considers to be fun, is not what I find fun. Where and how else can I meet people in college, esp. cute boys!??

Want to meet people but hate parties?
There are a couple of websites you might be interested in. They both give ideas for how to meet people. Have a look at them and let me know if you find the information useful:





http://www.squidoo.com/Meet-People/





http://www.meet-people.ws/
Reply:Yeah same here. I don't really want to meet a drunk girl, and i hate parties...........Most young people are alcoholics already which is sad. Maybe there are clubs o'r associations in college? What are your hobbies?
Reply:library


grocery store


mall


a fair


employment


after hour bar/restaurant


Websites to meet cool new people?

I just moved recently, and i wanna know of some good websites to meet people in my area. I use this one website called hot or not where you rate, pix and also meet people in your area. Is their another website similar, that allows you to search people in your area? thanks.

Websites to meet cool new people?
Myspace, Yahoo 360 page, thats all I got. Why not start out volunteering and meeting people that way, instead online?Xx

cavities

How to meet people while travelling?

so i am finally doing what i want with my life, i am following the career i want,i am in the place in my life that i have been striving for and working towards for years and i am very very happy. i'm 24 and living the next 6 months in new zealand and australia performing, then head back to the uk, to perform there all through the summer and so on. the problem is that i am quite lonely. While i have some fantastic friends around me when i'm in the uk i find it hard to make worthwhile relationships when i'm travelling so much. Meeting a partner is very very difficult when you only spend a month at a time in any one city and unfortunatly doing the kind of work i do that is the only real option. and then if i meet someone in the uk i have to be away from them for 6 months of the year and how can a new friendship let alone a new relationship survive that. what can i do i feel that all i've been working for is stopping me from adding important people to my life

How to meet people while travelling?
Is it a long term job? If not, you need to consider the fact that you just can't have a long term relationship at this stage of your life, maybe in a year or too. Or meet someone who loves travelling and would be willing to travel with you.
Reply:What kind of work you do?


Places to meet people in Pittsburgh?

I just moved to Pittsburgh PA a couple of months ago. My fiance' and I are having the hardest time meeting people (that are at least semi-normal). It seems like there's places to go meet people if you're single, but for couples it's harder (there are alot of freaks out there). We just want nice normal people to have dinner with. Suggestions?

Places to meet people in Pittsburgh?
Heinz field on a Sunday afternoon in the fall.
Reply:Just try strolling at the SouthSide Works!!, the Waterfront, or go to a Pirate game or a "STILLER" game! I promise...some of us Pittsburgher's are normal!! Also, try Station Square (I think of Friday's they have Street Jams...kind of like a block party). Best of luck!!
Reply:i lived there for a year while i was in school. theres quite a few places you can go to meet people. you could go for a picnic at point state park. they always have envents going on like concerts or the regata. also i use to work at heinz theatre. maybe see a musical or concert. then theres the strip. i know thats more like the club scene but one night maybe go for drinks. there are some upscale clubs down there. then you have station square. it has cool shops and eating places and also the incline you can ride up to mt. washington which has a beautiful view of the city. theres always people up there enjoying the view. also down by pnc park theres like a sidewalk that goes along the river, walk that and you'll find an interactive fountain. its got cement boxes you can sit on and you can get in the water. in the day time this place is packed,or try a romantic night out there if you want to be alone. then theres the andy warhol museum. there should be some nice people in there. also if you want to drive about 25 min theres kennywood amusment park. or go towards the mall area. theres tons of shops and restaurants and all that. pittsburgh does have a lot of weirdos but just go to the places where normal people are out at and you'll make friends. good luck!
Reply:my sister has lived there since last september and still hasn't made friends. what's wrong with the Pittsburg people.


How to meet people in San Diego?

Im going thru a divorce and I have a 10 months old child. I dont smoke and I dont drink. Im 22 and a Male.





I moved to san diego about 4 1/2 years ago.





I have spent the past 4 years trying to fix my relationship and not really any time out meeting people. Im very lonely and I have no idea how to meet people here. Ive never had to do this crap before. I dont have any friends here so I cant go anywhere with anyone. Ive struk up random conversation with people but they dont seem interested in anything more.





My myspace profile is myspace.com/thricetheused








P.s. Im not looking for a girlfriend. Im looking for friends.

How to meet people in San Diego?
if you go to church, attend social functions. or talk to other single parents at the church daycare. take up a hobby that includes your baby, you will meet others with kids that share your hobby as well. try volunteering for a local charity. go to art shows. live theatre. take what you like to do for fun and do more of it. dont rely on the internet to meet people. get out there at do it.
Reply:Join a social group. Play a sport. Join a bowling league
Reply:join a church, join a gym, take some college courses, take up a new hobby, learn a new sport, volunteer